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Wedding Day Timeline Template

Minute-by-minute wedding day schedules for 4 PM, 5 PM and 6 PM ceremonies, with and without a first look.

Rule of thumb: start hair and makeup 5 hours before the ceremony, have guests arrive 30 minutes before, keep cocktail hour to 60 minutes, and plan 4 to 5 hours of reception after the ceremony.

4 PM ceremony timeline (with a first look)

TimeWhat happens
11:00 AMHair and makeup begins
12:30 PMPhotographer arrives; detail shots
2:00 PMGetting dressed
2:30 PMFirst look and couple portraits
3:00 PMWedding party photos
3:30 PMGuests arrive; prelude music
4:00 PMCeremony
4:30 PMFamily photos
5:00 PMCocktail hour
6:00 PMGrand entrance
6:10 PMDinner service
7:10 PMToasts
7:30 PMFirst dance and parent dances
7:45 PMCake cutting
7:55 PMOpen dancing
9:55 PMLast dance and send-off

5 PM ceremony timeline

TimeWhat happens
12:00 PMHair and makeup begins
1:30 PMPhotographer arrives; detail shots
3:00 PMGetting dressed
3:30 PMFirst look and couple portraits
4:00 PMWedding party photos
4:30 PMGuests arrive; prelude music
5:00 PMCeremony
5:30 PMFamily photos
6:00 PMCocktail hour
7:00 PMGrand entrance
7:10 PMDinner service
8:10 PMToasts
8:30 PMFirst dance and parent dances
8:45 PMCake cutting
8:55 PMOpen dancing
10:55 PMLast dance and send-off

6 PM ceremony timeline

TimeWhat happens
1:00 PMHair and makeup begins
2:30 PMPhotographer arrives; detail shots
4:00 PMGetting dressed
4:30 PMFirst look and couple portraits
5:00 PMWedding party photos
5:30 PMGuests arrive; prelude music
6:00 PMCeremony
6:30 PMFamily photos
7:00 PMCocktail hour
8:00 PMGrand entrance
8:10 PMDinner service
9:10 PMToasts
9:30 PMFirst dance and parent dances
9:45 PMCake cutting
9:55 PMOpen dancing
11:55 PMLast dance and send-off

Timeline without a first look (4 PM ceremony)

TimeWhat happens
11:00 AMHair and makeup begins
1:00 PMPhotographer arrives; detail shots
2:30 PMGetting dressed
3:00 PMWedding party photos (separately)
3:30 PMGuests arrive; prelude music
4:00 PMCeremony
4:30 PMFamily photos
5:00 PMCouple and wedding party photos
6:00 PMGrand entrance
6:10 PMDinner service
7:10 PMToasts
7:30 PMFirst dance
7:55 PMOpen dancing
9:55 PMSend-off

How to build your own wedding day timeline

  1. Start from the ceremony time and work backward for getting ready and photos.
  2. Ask your photographer about light. Golden hour is the hour before sunset; schedule 15 minutes of couple portraits then.
  3. Add buffers. 15 minutes before the ceremony and between photo sessions.
  4. Write down who does what. Each line needs an owner: the planner, the DJ or a named family member.
  5. Share it a month out with every vendor and your wedding party.
Wedding day timeline template in a spreadsheet with times from 11:00 AM hair and makeup to a 9:55 PM send-off
The Day-Of Schedule tab rebuilds every time when you change the ceremony start.

Wedding day timeline FAQ

How long should a wedding day timeline be?

Most wedding days run 10 to 12 hours from the start of hair and makeup to the send-off. The reception itself is usually 4 to 5 hours.

When should hair and makeup start?

About 5 hours before the ceremony for a wedding party of 4 to 6 people. Add 45 minutes for each extra person in the chair.

How long is the cocktail hour?

One hour. It covers family and couple photos, so keep it to 60 minutes even if the photos run short.

Should we do a first look?

A first look moves couple and wedding party photos before the ceremony, so you can join your own cocktail hour. Without one, plan 60 to 90 minutes of photos after the ceremony.

When should we give vendors the wedding day timeline?

Send it one month before the wedding and confirm everyone's arrival time two weeks before.

Planning further out? Read how to plan a wedding timeline month by month.

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